Parenting books famously contradict each other. The right approach for your specific child and family doesn't come from any single book. Reading multiple critically is more useful than committing to one author's framework.
How to read parenting books well
Read 2-3 from different approaches. Notice what resonates and what doesn't with your specific child. Apply what fits; skip what doesn't. No single book is the answer.
Good options
'Good Inside' (Becky Kennedy), 'The Whole-Brain Child' (Daniel Siegel), 'How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen', 'Raising Your Spirited Child'. All worth reading; none complete alone.